Thursday, June 26, 2014

Why I Don't Hate My Scars Anymore

11/365 Days of Happiness: Scars are Tattoos with Better Stories
I used to hate my scars. I usually don’t wear skirts at work so no one would see them. I sometimes tease my Nanay that she does not love me, she allowed me to get scarred when I was young.

But nowadays, I wear skirts more often. I don't hate my scars anymore. I don't love them either, but I love the memories they bring. Scars are tattoos but with better stories. My scars bring happy memories of my childhood.



My most unforgettable scars are the ones I have on my knees. I got them when I was 9 or 10. I was playing with my cousins. We were using the baggage compartment of the tricycle as monkey bars. (Hey, it's made of metal and we had great imagination).

I don't have a picture of that but I have a recreation below, so you would imagine how fun it was.




It was fun until the tricycle sped away with me still hanging on the metal bars. I can't blame the poor driver. He was just delivering bread to our sari-sari store. How could he have known that there was a reckless little girl hanging on the metal bars? I was scared to let go, I was afraid my face would hit the asphalted road. Good thing there was a good neighbor who saw me and shouted at the driver to stop.

My sangko attended to my skinned knees. It may be out of love or out of responsibility, but he did take care of me. Every day, he would wash my wounds with boiled guava leaves. Ten to twelve- year old Filipino boys would know where else the guava leaves are used for. It was effective. For my knees, I know they were. I don't remember if I thanked my brother for that. If not, "Salamat, Sangko!" (I don't even call him that anymore. My three older brothers are now all called Kuya.)

That's one childhood game I won't ever forget. It was painful but it didn't stop me from playing on monkey bars. But of course, no more of the tricycle bars but plenty of swinging under the double deck bed.

Like this:



Funny now that I remember my childhood, I kind of miss the scars from trying to get up the coconut tree and sliding down. It was fun, too; with minor abrasions. Like the ones I get when I have to slide down from the papaya tree from our second floor window. Less painful, but a bit irritating are the scratches from rice stalks. We accompany our grandmother in rice fields after harvest time. We would gather the grains left by the harvester. Actually, she did most of the gathering, while we, the children play in the haystack for hours. A little discomfort when we sleep at night but so worth it. That was fun, fun, fun!

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